♥♥Just about what I have gone through every day... So it will remind me of my life path up until now... I want to express it with words... My small brain can’t afford to keep it all... The language may 'Campur2' because it’s my diary after all... who will cares anyway??? XD♥♥

♥♥Life not always happen like you have planned.. Everyday there will be surprises happening in your life.. Treasure it.. Appreciate it.. It may not always happen.. And maybe will not happen again..♥♥

Daisypath Friendship tickers

Saturday, October 2, 2010

What kind of relationship?

Today I attended my minor class, Introduction to Human Communication....
The chapter for this week is Communication in Relationship....
Sounds interesting isn't it?
But, I still didn't focus during lecture and came in late....LOL...
My affection against novel is stronger ... XD
Okay...Okay...Back to the track...
I want to write something that associated with the title....
It was really interesting...
I stopped my reading for a while to listen to the lecture...
So now lets begin~~~~

There are few categories in special relationship (love), they are:
       1.      Eros
-         Eros is a feeling that based on physical and sexuality attraction.
-         People who involve in this relationship stressed on physical qualities (beautiful, handsome, etc).
-         Affected by the lack and superiority of physical.
-         Sometimes missed the important qualities in relationship.
-         Always feel not satisfied in the relationship.

2.    Ludus (not sure its English or Malay)
-         Based on entertainment and excitement.
-         Relationship as a game.
-         Doesn’t see love as something that’s serious.
-         Doesn’t let emotion control actions.
-         Sometimes aggressive from sexual side.
-         Not that loyal and change partners often and easily.

3.    Storge (not sure its English or Malay)
-         Takes time to bloom, slow.
-         Start with friendship.
-         Searching for someone that can be discussed, shares stories and problems and play together.
-         You sometimes didn’t realize when friendship feeling changed to love.
-         Sexual attraction is not the main factor to consider.

4.    Pragma
-         Practical and traditional.
-         Seeking compatibility to fulfill wants and needs.
-         Judging from the social status: family background, profession, etc.
-         Based on logic and act realistic.

5.     Maniac
-         Extreme feelings.
-         Love too much but always feel unsecure.
-         Easily feel jealous, want to conquer and be conquered.
-         Low self esteem.
-         Love is 1st priority and everything to you.

6.    Agape
-         Not selfish and have empathy.
-         Not hoping response from the person they love.
-         More spiritual.
-         Sexual attraction is not important.
-         Hold on to destiny.

*Conclusion: there are many definition of love.
*Every people have different motivation.
*Love can changed from one to another.

No comments:

Post a Comment