What kind of relationship?

Today I attended my minor class, Introduction to Human Communication....
The chapter for this week is Communication in Relationship....
Sounds interesting isn't it?
But, I still didn't focus during lecture and came in late....LOL...
My affection against novel is stronger ... XD
Okay...Okay...Back to the track...
I want to write something that associated with the title....
It was really interesting...
I stopped my reading for a while to listen to the lecture...
So now lets begin~~~~

There are few categories in special relationship (love), they are:

      

       1.      Eros

-         Eros is a feeling that based on physical and sexuality attraction.

-         People who involve in this relationship stressed on physical qualities (beautiful, handsome, etc).

-         Affected by the lack and superiority of physical.

-         Sometimes missed the important qualities in relationship.

-         Always feel not satisfied in the relationship.

2.    Ludus (not sure its English or Malay)

-         Based on entertainment and excitement.

-         Relationship as a game.

-         Doesn’t see love as something that’s serious.

-         Doesn’t let emotion control actions.

-         Sometimes aggressive from sexual side.

-         Not that loyal and change partners often and easily.

3.    Storge (not sure its English or Malay)

-         Takes time to bloom, slow.

-         Start with friendship.

-         Searching for someone that can be discussed, shares stories and problems and play together.

-         You sometimes didn’t realize when friendship feeling changed to love.

-         Sexual attraction is not the main factor to consider.

4.    Pragma

-         Practical and traditional.

-         Seeking compatibility to fulfill wants and needs.

-         Judging from the social status: family background, profession, etc.

-         Based on logic and act realistic.

5.     Maniac

-         Extreme feelings.

-         Love too much but always feel unsecure.

-         Easily feel jealous, want to conquer and be conquered.

-         Low self esteem.

-         Love is 1^st priority and everything to you.

6.    Agape

-         Not selfish and have empathy.

-         Not hoping response from the person they love.

-         More spiritual.

-         Sexual attraction is not important.

-         Hold on to destiny.

*Conclusion: there are many definition of love.

*Every people have different motivation.

*Love can changed from one to another.